How to Choose a Hair Style and Hairdresser

Hairstyles that exert traction on the hair, such as ponytails, cornrows, buns, etc, are not good for people with hair loss problem. Professional hairdresser can conceal hair loss by highlighting certain areas to divert attention from areas of thinning or advise on conditioner and thickener that give hair a fuller look.

Choosing a Hair Style

Choosing a Hair Style and Hairdresser – Tips & Ideas

Here is my list of do’s and don’t’s in selecting, dealing with and keeping a hairdresser:

1. Find a hairdresser through a personal recommendation. If there is someone you know who has a haircut you admire, or you see someone on a street or at a party with a pretty hairstyle you think may look great on you, ask her where she gets her hair cut. Don’t be shy.

2. Make an appointment and walk in with confidence. Don’t be intimidated by a fancy salon or a preoccupied receptionist. Be gracious but firm; announce your arrival and ask when you may see the hairdresser. If you are kept waiting, ask why. Ask any other questions you like. Remember, hairdressing is a service-you are the client and the priority at any salon should be to serve you.

3. On your first visit, when the receptionist gives you a robe to change into, don’t do it. Meet your hairdresser with your hair the way you wear it normally, in the clothes that are yours, so he or she can see the whole you, the image you present. This will help him understand “who” you are and to create a style that will fit you. But this also means that you shouldn’t “dress to the hilt” or pretend to be someone you are not. Be yourself-but be your best self.

4. Notice if the hairdresser has the time to talk with you-not only to discuss the style that would be flattering for you (beware if he immediately tells you he knows just the perfect style for you) but also to find out what kind of life you lead, how much time you have to care for your hair, how skilled you are at using some of the tools and what kind of hairstyles you like. All this information will help him to create your hairstyle-so if he doesn’t ask, volunteer the information. If he doesn’t care-leave immediately.

5. If you see the hairdresser creating the same hairdo for all his customers-watch out. It may be the only one he knows, or he may be the kind who does only one “in” hairdo at a time. A good hairdresser creates an individual style for each of his clients.

6. Once you have chosen a hairdresser, talk to him honestly. Tell him what you like in a hairdo, and what you don’t like. I really believe that if you end up with a hairstyle you hate, you must accept some of the responsibility. To avoid such a catastrophe, keep saying to yourself, “It is my hair that’s being styled and I have something to say about it!” Any good hairdresser will respect that.

7. Don’t skimp on a haircut. The hairdresser you like may be more expensive than others, but if he is really good, it will be worth it. Remember, if you get a cut you hate, you are going to have to put out more money to have somebody else fix it. If you want to save money on a haircut, go to the stylist you like but have him or her cut your hair shorter than usual so you won’t have to return as often.

8. A good hairdresser will not make you dependent on him. He will give you a haircut that you will be able to take care of yourself, and he can show you how to do it yourself-so ask him! If you find when you get home that you can do nothing with your hair (and you find that the only person who can is your hair dresser ) tell him that the cut isn’t right for you. If he doesn’t understand, you may need to switch to someone who does.


Choosing the right hairstyle and hairdresser is crucial, especially for individuals dealing with hair loss. Styles like ponytails and cornrows can exacerbate the problem, while a professional hairdresser can offer solutions like highlighting to camouflage thinning areas or recommend products for a fuller look. When selecting a hairdresser, personal recommendations are invaluable, and confidence is key when making appointments. It’s important to communicate openly with your hairdresser about your preferences and lifestyle to ensure a tailored style. Avoid hairdressers who impose one-size-fits-all styles and prioritize those who empower you to manage your hair independently. Ultimately, investing in a skilled hairdresser may save you time and money in the long run.

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